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joi, 13 noiembrie 2014
joi, 16 august 2012
"Fericirea este întotdeauna acolo unde o găsește omul“
"Să iubești nu e suficient, trebuie să știi să înveți pe altul arta dragostei. Plăcerea o simte și plebea, chiar și animalele. Omul adevărat, însă, tocmai prin asta se deosebește de animale. El transformă dragostea într-o artă nobilă și, bucurându-se de ea, e conștient de valoarea ei divină. Astfel, nu-și satisface doar trupul, ci și sufletul."
"Fericirea este întotdeauna acolo unde o găsește omul“
"Toate limbile și tainele și toate științele n-au să fie nimic fără iubire, care e mărinimoasă, răbdătoare, care nu face rău, nu dorește onoruri, îndură totul, crede oricui, speră mereu și învinge“
Quo Vadis - Henryk Sienkiewicz
"Fericirea este întotdeauna acolo unde o găsește omul“
"Toate limbile și tainele și toate științele n-au să fie nimic fără iubire, care e mărinimoasă, răbdătoare, care nu face rău, nu dorește onoruri, îndură totul, crede oricui, speră mereu și învinge“
Quo Vadis - Henryk Sienkiewicz
vineri, 25 mai 2012
Quote of the day
vineri, 26 august 2011
luni, 18 iulie 2011
quote of the day
joi, 7 iulie 2011
quote of the day
luni, 13 iunie 2011
The truth is mine

Dr. Linus Wagner: Everything you told me is total fiction, isn't it?.
Patrick Jane: Yes.
Dr. Linus Wagner: Why? I can tell you're in real pain. Why not tell the truth
Patrick Jane: The truth is mine.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1196946/
sâmbătă, 11 iunie 2011
quote of the day
vineri, 8 aprilie 2011
quote of the day
miercuri, 6 aprilie 2011
marți, 22 martie 2011
quote of the night
I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone
Arwen: Do you remember when we first met?
Aragorn: I thought I had wandered into a dream.
Arwen: Long years have passed. You did not have the cares you carry now. Do you remember what I told you?
Aragorn: You said you'd bind yourself to me, forsaking the immortal life of your people.
Arwen: And to that I hold. I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.
[hands him her pendant]
Arwen: I choose a mortal life.
Aragorn: You cannot give me this.
Arwen: It is mine to give to whom I will. Like my heart.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120737/
Aragorn: I thought I had wandered into a dream.
Arwen: Long years have passed. You did not have the cares you carry now. Do you remember what I told you?
Aragorn: You said you'd bind yourself to me, forsaking the immortal life of your people.
Arwen: And to that I hold. I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.
[hands him her pendant]
Arwen: I choose a mortal life.
Aragorn: You cannot give me this.
Arwen: It is mine to give to whom I will. Like my heart.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120737/
joi, 3 martie 2011
Minuţel de poezie - Buna variantă rea – Adrian Păunescu
La noapte ne certăm definitiv,
Ne despărţim în mici felii de pâine
Şi ne urâm acum fără motiv,
Să ne-mpăcăm fără motive mâine.
Nu-i cauză şi nu e nici efect
În toată încleştarea asta mare,
Iubirea noastră toată-i un defect,
Ferească Dumnezeu să se repare.
Îmi vine să te-njur de Dumnezeu
Şi-apoi să-L rog pe El să te salveze,
Eşti binele, precum eşti răul meu,
Cea mai cumplită dintre ipoteze.
Mă calci pe nervi şi mă înnebuneşti,
Ai să mă faci, fierbinteo şi rebelo,
Cu-aceste negre mâini împărăteşti
Să-ţi nimeresc gâtlejul ca Othello.
Tu, am impresia, nici nu observi
Cu ce iubire te păstrez în mine,
Pe inimă te port, te duc pe nervi,
M-ai prefacut în cioburi şi ruine.
La tot ce-i hotărât definitiv
Nu am nici azi nimica împotrivă,
Dar eu mă tem să nu găsim motiv
Pentru o despărţire relativă.
Promite-mi că pe celălalt tărâm
Ne vom vedea cu nişte ochi de gheaţă
Atâta timp cât nu ne hotărâm
La scurta despărţire de o viaţă.
Ne despărţim în mici felii de pâine
Şi ne urâm acum fără motiv,
Să ne-mpăcăm fără motive mâine.
Nu-i cauză şi nu e nici efect
În toată încleştarea asta mare,
Iubirea noastră toată-i un defect,
Ferească Dumnezeu să se repare.
Îmi vine să te-njur de Dumnezeu
Şi-apoi să-L rog pe El să te salveze,
Eşti binele, precum eşti răul meu,
Cea mai cumplită dintre ipoteze.
Mă calci pe nervi şi mă înnebuneşti,
Ai să mă faci, fierbinteo şi rebelo,
Cu-aceste negre mâini împărăteşti
Să-ţi nimeresc gâtlejul ca Othello.
Tu, am impresia, nici nu observi
Cu ce iubire te păstrez în mine,
Pe inimă te port, te duc pe nervi,
M-ai prefacut în cioburi şi ruine.
La tot ce-i hotărât definitiv
Nu am nici azi nimica împotrivă,
Dar eu mă tem să nu găsim motiv
Pentru o despărţire relativă.
Promite-mi că pe celălalt tărâm
Ne vom vedea cu nişte ochi de gheaţă
Atâta timp cât nu ne hotărâm
La scurta despărţire de o viaţă.
duminică, 23 ianuarie 2011
duminică, 16 ianuarie 2011
At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate
Time flies. Time waits for no man. Time heals all wounds. All any of us wants is more time. Time to stand up. Time to grow up. Time to let go. Time.
It means you have a choice. You have a choice to make. And I don't want to rush you into making the decision before you're ready. This morning I was going to come over... I was going to say... What I wanted to say was... But now all I can say is that... I'm in love with you. I've been in love with you for, ever. I'm a little late, I know I'm a little late in telling you that. I, I just, I just want you to take your time, you know. Take all the time you need, because you have a choice to make. And when I had a choice to make, I chose wrong. Goodnight
I'm in love with you. I've been in love with you for... ever. I know I'm a little late in telling you. I know I'm a little late.
We're socially retarded. I mean, look at me. I'm in love with a guy who won't say he loves me back... and here I am in his kitchen cooking, hoping he comes home and notices me. I'm a total freak. I'm the girl in the back of the class who eats her hair.
At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines... that are way too dangerous to cross.
At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. It's like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And it's not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.
Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.
I've heard that it's possible to grow up - I've just never met anyone who's actually done it. Without parents to defy, we break the rules we make for ourselves. We throw tantrums when things don't go our way, we whisper secrets with our best friends in the dark, we look for comfort where we can find it, and we hope - against all logic, against all experience. Like children, we never give up hope...
Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.
Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the ass. And when the dam bursts, all you can do is swim. The world of pretend is a cage, not a cocoon. We can only lie to ourselves for so long. We are tired, we are scared, denying it doesn't change the truth. Sooner or later we have to put aside our denial and face the world. Head on, guns blazing. De Nile. It's not just a river in Egypt, it's a freakin' ocean. So how do you keep from drowning in it?
Dr. Meredith Grey: What was I to you? The girl you screwed to get over being screwed?
Dr. Derek Shepherd: You were like coming up for fresh air. It's like I was drowning and you saved me. It's all I know.
Dr. Meredith Grey: It's not good enough.
Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate.
Okay, here it is, your choice... it's simple, her or me, and I'm sure she is really great. But Derek, I love you, in a really, really big pretend to like your taste in music, let you eat the last piece of cheesecake, hold a radio over my head outside your window, unfortunate way that makes me hate you, love you. So pick me, choose me, love me.
I know now that I’m good enough not to deserve this. Not to have to feel like this. Not to love you so much that I almost hate you. I deserve someone who will stay. I’m happy you’re okay. And I’m happy about your job. And I want you to go, and be happy, and not come back.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0413573/
It means you have a choice. You have a choice to make. And I don't want to rush you into making the decision before you're ready. This morning I was going to come over... I was going to say... What I wanted to say was... But now all I can say is that... I'm in love with you. I've been in love with you for, ever. I'm a little late, I know I'm a little late in telling you that. I, I just, I just want you to take your time, you know. Take all the time you need, because you have a choice to make. And when I had a choice to make, I chose wrong. Goodnight
I'm in love with you. I've been in love with you for... ever. I know I'm a little late in telling you. I know I'm a little late.
We're socially retarded. I mean, look at me. I'm in love with a guy who won't say he loves me back... and here I am in his kitchen cooking, hoping he comes home and notices me. I'm a total freak. I'm the girl in the back of the class who eats her hair.
At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines... that are way too dangerous to cross.
At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. It's like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And it's not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.
Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.
I've heard that it's possible to grow up - I've just never met anyone who's actually done it. Without parents to defy, we break the rules we make for ourselves. We throw tantrums when things don't go our way, we whisper secrets with our best friends in the dark, we look for comfort where we can find it, and we hope - against all logic, against all experience. Like children, we never give up hope...
Pain, you just have to ride it out, hope it goes away on its own, hope the wound that caused it heals. There are no solutions, no easy answers, you just breath deep and wait for it to subside. Most of the time pain can be managed but sometimes the pain gets you where you least expect it. Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up. Pain, you just have to fight through, because the truth is you can't outrun it and life always makes more.
Sometimes reality has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the ass. And when the dam bursts, all you can do is swim. The world of pretend is a cage, not a cocoon. We can only lie to ourselves for so long. We are tired, we are scared, denying it doesn't change the truth. Sooner or later we have to put aside our denial and face the world. Head on, guns blazing. De Nile. It's not just a river in Egypt, it's a freakin' ocean. So how do you keep from drowning in it?
Dr. Meredith Grey: What was I to you? The girl you screwed to get over being screwed?
Dr. Derek Shepherd: You were like coming up for fresh air. It's like I was drowning and you saved me. It's all I know.
Dr. Meredith Grey: It's not good enough.
Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate.
Okay, here it is, your choice... it's simple, her or me, and I'm sure she is really great. But Derek, I love you, in a really, really big pretend to like your taste in music, let you eat the last piece of cheesecake, hold a radio over my head outside your window, unfortunate way that makes me hate you, love you. So pick me, choose me, love me.
I know now that I’m good enough not to deserve this. Not to have to feel like this. Not to love you so much that I almost hate you. I deserve someone who will stay. I’m happy you’re okay. And I’m happy about your job. And I want you to go, and be happy, and not come back.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0413573/
sâmbătă, 15 ianuarie 2011
quote of the day
joi, 6 ianuarie 2011
Cum să uit eu soarele?
Parcă fusesem rupt în zece bucăţi, căci îmi simţeam trupul numai o rană, sufletul risipit, nu mai aveam nici voinţă, nici putere să mă dezmeticesc o clipă.
E foarte greu să ai ceva cu adevărat, să-l capeţi sau să-l cucereşti. Mai mult ne închipuim că posedăm, decât posedăm.
Nimic nu durează în suflet. Până şi cea mai verificată încredere poate fi anulată de un sigur gest.
Cum te-aş putea eu pierde pe tine, când tu eşti soarele meu, când razele tale mă încălzesc pe acest drum de ţară? Cum să uit eu soarele?
O fericire calmă şi în acelaşi timp şi violentă, în faţa căreia sufletul nu opunea nici o rezistenţă; o beatitudine a simţurilor care depăşea senzualitatea, ca şi cum ar fi participat la ea o fericire cerească, la o stare de Har. La început starea se susţinea numai din priviri. Apoi am început sa ne atingem mâinile, fără a ne despărţi totuşi, ochii. Strângeri barbare, mângâieri de devot.
http://ro.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maitreyi
E foarte greu să ai ceva cu adevărat, să-l capeţi sau să-l cucereşti. Mai mult ne închipuim că posedăm, decât posedăm.
Nimic nu durează în suflet. Până şi cea mai verificată încredere poate fi anulată de un sigur gest.
Cum te-aş putea eu pierde pe tine, când tu eşti soarele meu, când razele tale mă încălzesc pe acest drum de ţară? Cum să uit eu soarele?
O fericire calmă şi în acelaşi timp şi violentă, în faţa căreia sufletul nu opunea nici o rezistenţă; o beatitudine a simţurilor care depăşea senzualitatea, ca şi cum ar fi participat la ea o fericire cerească, la o stare de Har. La început starea se susţinea numai din priviri. Apoi am început sa ne atingem mâinile, fără a ne despărţi totuşi, ochii. Strângeri barbare, mângâieri de devot.
http://ro.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maitreyi
miercuri, 5 ianuarie 2011
E cu neputinta sa fugi de tristetea din tine
...visele pot fi atat de primejdioase: mocnesc ca focul si uneori ne consuma cu totul
M-am impleticit pana afara, in curte, ca sa scap de tristete, dar sigur ca e cu neputinta sa fugi de tristetea din tine.
Durerea e un lucru foarte ciudat; suntem atat de neputinciosi in fata ei. E ca o fereastra care se deschide atunci cand vrea ea. Camera se raceste si nu putem decat sa tremuram. Dar de fiecare data se deschide mai putin, si mai putin; pana cand, intr-o zi, ne intrebam ce s-a ales de ea.
Fetele spera tot felul de lucruri nebunesti[...]. Sperantele sunt ca podoabele de par. Fetele vor sa poarte prea multe. Cand ajung femei batrane, arata caraghios si numai cu una singura.
http://www.humanitas.ro/humanitas-fiction/memoriile-unei-gheise
M-am impleticit pana afara, in curte, ca sa scap de tristete, dar sigur ca e cu neputinta sa fugi de tristetea din tine.
Durerea e un lucru foarte ciudat; suntem atat de neputinciosi in fata ei. E ca o fereastra care se deschide atunci cand vrea ea. Camera se raceste si nu putem decat sa tremuram. Dar de fiecare data se deschide mai putin, si mai putin; pana cand, intr-o zi, ne intrebam ce s-a ales de ea.
Fetele spera tot felul de lucruri nebunesti[...]. Sperantele sunt ca podoabele de par. Fetele vor sa poarte prea multe. Cand ajung femei batrane, arata caraghios si numai cu una singura.
http://www.humanitas.ro/humanitas-fiction/memoriile-unei-gheise
marți, 4 ianuarie 2011
Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on
Gigi: We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.
Gigi: Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.
Neil: People who get married are not to be trusted. You know why? Because if you were legitimately happy, honestly you wouldn't feel the need to make a big show out of it. You wouldn't have to broadcast it. They do it because they're insecure and because they think that getting married is what they're supposed to be doing now. And so they're lying to themselves and they're lying to others.
Gigi: I would rather be like that, then be like you.
Mary: What if you meet the love of your life, are you supposed to let them pass you by?
Gigi: I think I've figured it out. Remember when I went out with that notary public and he cheated on me and then Anastasia from upstairs told me about how her boyfriend cheated on her in the beginning then he totally changed and now they're married and crazy in love?
Beth: I thought that guy was a process server.
Gigi: No notary. Anyway my point is, Anastasia is the exception, not the rule. We have to stop listening to these stories because they rule is most guys who cheat on you up front don't really care about you very much.
Janine: Ok.
Gigi: Ok, Ok. Exhibit A. Chad the drummer who lived in a storage space. He only used me for rides and yet I continued to stalk him for most of 1998. Then oh, um, there was Don, that broke up with me every Friday so that he could have his weekends free. I was delusional about that relationship. I used to refer to him as my husband to random people, like my dental hygienist. Anyway, all my friends used to tell me about how things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine. That girl ended up getting married and living happily ever after. That the exception and we're not the exception we're the rule.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/
Gigi: Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.
Neil: People who get married are not to be trusted. You know why? Because if you were legitimately happy, honestly you wouldn't feel the need to make a big show out of it. You wouldn't have to broadcast it. They do it because they're insecure and because they think that getting married is what they're supposed to be doing now. And so they're lying to themselves and they're lying to others.
Gigi: I would rather be like that, then be like you.
Mary: What if you meet the love of your life, are you supposed to let them pass you by?
Gigi: I think I've figured it out. Remember when I went out with that notary public and he cheated on me and then Anastasia from upstairs told me about how her boyfriend cheated on her in the beginning then he totally changed and now they're married and crazy in love?
Beth: I thought that guy was a process server.
Gigi: No notary. Anyway my point is, Anastasia is the exception, not the rule. We have to stop listening to these stories because they rule is most guys who cheat on you up front don't really care about you very much.
Janine: Ok.
Gigi: Ok, Ok. Exhibit A. Chad the drummer who lived in a storage space. He only used me for rides and yet I continued to stalk him for most of 1998. Then oh, um, there was Don, that broke up with me every Friday so that he could have his weekends free. I was delusional about that relationship. I used to refer to him as my husband to random people, like my dental hygienist. Anyway, all my friends used to tell me about how things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine. That girl ended up getting married and living happily ever after. That the exception and we're not the exception we're the rule.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1001508/
luni, 3 ianuarie 2011
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